Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

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  1. JP01
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    Re: Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

    Today is exactly 1 month later since we have lost our baby at 25 weeks RIP Jaden
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    Sorry JP, I dont want to imagine how hard that would be.
     
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    sorry again dude.. keep strong!
     
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    Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

    Loving the ink JP and sorry about your loss. With Angus on this one. Will keep you and your wife in our prayers.
     
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    Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

    Damn dude. That is terrible news! I cannot begin to imagine that kind of thing...
     
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    Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

    So sorry to hear that news, our prayers are with you and your wife.
     
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    Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

    I'm sorry for your loss Jean.
     
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    Re: Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

    That is really hard Jean, very sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.. :(
     
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    Great JP!!!

    Thats a classic tattoo!!
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    Springs is getting a zoo.
    They are putting a fence around Brakpan! :laughing7:
     
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    i need same help
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    Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

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    Took the kids today to the planetarium and saw the eclipse afterwards, dunno who enjoyed it more me or them
     
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    Just bought back 35Kgs of great hardscape between two of us, packed in our hand luggage and in the hold .. amazing what you can deviously get away with, with fake geologist credentials :)... was worth the trip, heat and climb :thumbsup:
     
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    Re: Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

    Thanks guy's!
     
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    Nice Trevor!
     
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    Caught a swarm of bees today :thumbsup:,very ninja.
    (P.S. I hope they stick around this time,the another swarm packed up and left during the week.)
     
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    Good luck this time bud, trying to keep them in that old tank last time was a bit daft IMO :laugh:
     
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    Re: Stuff that happened to you today but isn't worth a thread

    So sorry for your loss JP. :( I know what you're going through. It does get easier with love, support and time!
     
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    Hi JP

    My wife and I lost our first at 8wks but only discovered it at 16wks (called a missed miscarriage - her body never rejected it!). It was a horrible experience which I wouldn't wish on my enemies.

    Keep strong :icon_thumright: and look after the missus
     
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    +1 I had a "missed" miscarriage between my son and daughter, except mine was only picked up at 10 weeks. I had to wait another 4 weeks before it was made official at 14 weeks. I was later told the baby was a boy. I desperately wanted two sons at the time.

    Anyway, like I said, it does get easier with time but it is harder on mom. I'm not playing down the pain of loss from the man's side but woman have to deal with the hormones and body changes associated with a pregnancy as well as the emotional loss. So my advice is to really look after your wife and shower her with lots of love and support and I'm sure she will reciprocate it right back to you!

    To add to my story, I was told I may not be able to conceive again after the miscarriage due to a few complications but a few years later along came my daughter!!!!!
     
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